Rebecca here.

I’m stepping on my soapbox today.

Here’s the truth.

I’m tired.

I’m tired of working my ass off.

I’m tired of trying to live up to everyone else’s expectations of who I’m supposed to be and what I’m supposed to do.

I’m tired of owning a small business, of paying rent and payroll on the 1st of the month and realizing that there’s nothing left for me to take home to my family or reinvest back into the shop.

I’m tired of having an endless “to do” list.

I’m tired of dealing with internet trolls who are just assholes.

I’m tired of juggling a million different tasks.

I’m tired of giving to everyone else before I give to myself.

I’m tired of running a race and feeling like I’m always coming in last place.

It makes sense, this is a season of life when I’m supposed to be tired…coming off of a busy summer season at the shop and guiding trips.

But I don’t want to be this busy.

I don’t want to be tired.

I know that I can’t be the only woman out there who is tired.

Can I get an “amen” if you’re tired too?

So what do we do?

What do we do when we’re exhausted?

What do we do when we’re burned out and stressed out?

Do we need a day off of work, a yoga class or a massage?

Is that enough or is it simply a bandaid when we need a tourniquet.

I love this Brene Brown quote:

“‘Crazy-busy’ is a great armor, it’s a great way for numbing. What a lot of us do is that we stay so busy, and so out in front of our life, that the truth of how we’re feeling and what we really need can’t catch up with us.”

I’m ready to catch up with me.

Are you ready to catch up with you?

It’s a new month.

This month I’m focusing on taking off my armor.

I’m going to say “no” to people and things who take my time and energy.

I’m going to say “yes” to reading stories with my kids, to a date night with my husband, to sleeping in past 5 am.

Hell, I might even close my shop on a random Tuesday at the risk of losing sales and making customers annoyed just so I can take a hike. Alone. In the wilderness.

Will you join me this month and focus on who really matters in this world? On YOU?

We all need it.

We all need a break.

We all need rest.

Let’s find it together and let’s chat about it on Facebook, Instagram and our membership group at Mighty Networks. 


p.s. This fall at Hike Like A Woman we’re focused on Leave No Trace. We’re sharing stories, experiences, and tips on how we can reduce our impact in the backcountry. Be sure to subscribe to our newsletter (just click here) and join us on Mighty Networks for this discussion.

2 comments on “The Truth

  1. I realize that this is an old blog, but I just found it so I hope it is ok to reply?

    Amen!
    I am right there..so tired of being worn out and not liking myself and who I’ve become. I am a small business owner and I will have to work until I die and still will not be completely caught up with anything and will still owe everyone. My husband was in accident and became disabled and the same year that happened we adopted 2 of our grandchildren and started raising 3 others. I am now the only income and raising 5 children and trying to keep my business running and and and…
    I’m exhausted!
    I miss going hiking.
    I miss going snowshoeing.
    I miss going potty in private! 🤷‍♀️
    You have inspired me to try an idea or two of yours. I think I’ll try for Sunday’s with my family and if it works, I will try at least an hour by myself once or twice a week.
    Thank you for putting this out there! It is good to know I’m not the only one who feels like this.

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